I’d love to do stand-up comedy but I don’t have the guts. Instead I just sit around writing jokes and posting them to my Facebook page. So here’s a routine I’d do if I had the balls:
I travel a lot for work. One of the places I visit a lot is Vegas, which I fucking hate. The only thing I liked about my last trip was a guy I saw on the Strip holding a sign that said, “Kick me in the balls for $20.”
People say I hate Vegas because I hate having fun. Maybe that’s true. I like to party like it’s 1899. I don’t drink too much or smoke or do drugs. Basically, I’m a law-abiding citizen. Whenever I make a grocery list I always put the little registered trademark symbol after brand names.
Only in Vegas: a newsstand that doesn’t sell newspapers. Or magazines. Or any reading material whatsoever. It does sell condoms and booze, though.
Why do I always get the hotel room with blood stains?
I wear earplugs whenever I fly now. Not to drown out the engine noise. To drown out the conversations of the people around me.
Part of the reason I hate traveling so much is that it forces me to interact with idiots. The worst is flying at Thanksgiving. That’s when all the fucking morons who only fly once a year jam up the security line because they aren’t used to taking off their belts and shoes and they don’t know how to fucking pack. The dude in front of me last year was carrying on an XBox 360.
I was on a flight recently and the captain came over the loudspeaker and announced we should fasten our seatbelts because we were about to experience “some weather.” I don’t understand why he felt he had to use a euphemism. It was just bad weather. It wasn’t like it was diarrhea.
Whenever someone tells me they want to get out of an obligation but they can’t think of an excuse, I say, “Just tell them you have diarrhea.” Diarrhea is the perfect excuse. When you say you have diarrhea, it automatically shuts down all further questioning. No one wants to know any more. In fact, they want to know less.
I don’t understand why anyone uses euphemisms. Just say what you mean. You’re not playing “Devil’s Advocate.” You’re being an asshole.
Another thing that annoys me is when people use trendy slang. If you use the word “epic” as an adjective and it is not followed by either the word “poem” or “journey,” you are a douche. First item on my “bucket list”: Wipe out use of the term “bucket list.”But I will concede that Nostradamus’s greatest achievement was coining the phrase “spoiler alert.”
Another pithy little saying that pisses me off is “the best invention since sliced bread.” Really? Was unsliced bread really that much of a scourge for humanity? We’re really putting slices of Wonder® Bread above wastewater treatment on the list of great inventions even though the latter has saved countless people from shitting themselves to death from cholera?
It always comes back to diarrhea with me.
Speaking of great inventions, I consider myself a bit of an inventor. This morning as I was steaming open my sinuses to get some relief from a sinus infection and I thought “maybe we could harness steam’s power to drive an engine.”
It’s not just on planes that I run into idiots. I was at lunch the other day and I overheard a woman saying to her mother, “Do you know the secret to making a good salad? What you do is, you get a bowl and you put some vegetables in it. Then you put some dressing on the vegetables and you mix it all up.” That was it. And the mother acted like it was the most amazing thing she’d ever heard. It would have been awesome if the mother, instead of lapping it up, had just stared at her daughter for a beat and then bitch-slapped her.
I also run into idiots at the gym. Once I was wearing my favorite t-shirt, which is one my husband made for his swim team. On the back it says, “We swim fast so our parents will love us.” Some dude came up to me and said, “We swim fast so our parents will love us? That’s pretty messed up, isn’t it?” I looked him dead in the eye and said, “I don’t make the rules.” Then I walked away.
And I run into idiots on the street. One time I was late for meeting a friend and I was trying to parallel park into a space that was too small for my car. I kept having to pull out and start over again. This douchebag was walking by and he kept openly laughing at me. My windows were rolled down, so I said in a calm, dispassionate voice, “Fuck you.” He did a double-take. So I said, a little more loudly, “Yes, I did just say that.” He got scared and took off run-walking down the street.
It would be great if we could have a day when we could say whatever we wanted and there would be no repercussions because no one else would remember the next day. Here’s what I’d say on my special day: “Dear Facebook ‘Friends:’ Stop posting ‘cute’ snippets of dialogue between you and your kid. No one gives a shit. All anyone wants to see on Facebook are tits or the words ‘shit,’ ‘ass,’ or ‘cunt.’ Please post accordingly.”
On my special day I would also verbally bitch-slap arrogant assholes like the guy I met yesterday. Well, actually I just thought I met him yesterday. When I introduced myself to him, he pointed out we had met twice before. He seemed annoyed, so I felt like saying, “Listen, Generic Bald, Fat, White Guy: if you’re so unremarkable that I have no recollection of meeting you not just once, but twice, that’s your problem, not mine.” But I guess I can see his point, since apparently the first time we “met” was when we worked one floor away from each other for several months at a very small Milwaukee law firm.
The other day I was arranging to meet someone for lunch and I suggested a restaurant that he hadn’t been to before. He said, “Is that the one that is down the street from Planned Parenthood?” Who uses Planned Parenthood as a landmark? So I said, “I don’t know, I haven’t had any abortions lately.”
Once I was doing some research and I found an article on a lawyer’s Web site that began with a quote from Wikipedia. Good advertising, dude. Nothing gives me more confidence in your abilities as an attorney than beginning an article with definition from a reference to which any mouth-breathing cretin with Internet access can contribute. You’d have more credibility if you started your article with a definition from urbandictionary.com: “Among the acts forbidden by English Common Law was ‘twincest,’ which Ye Olde Urban Dictionarie defines as ‘twins having sex.. it’s so wrong, yet it feels so right.’”
And, by the way, nothing draws the reader in like beginning your piece with something said by someone smarter than you. Indeed, the most important decision to make when beginning any piece of persuasive writing is whether to attribute whatever moronic argument you’re going to make to William Shakespeare or to Abraham Lincoln.
I’ve been really depressed about the Lincoln assassination lately.
My problem is that all of my heroes are either dead or fictional characters.
Maybe I’m just snobby about reference materials because I used to be a lawyer, but I don’t practice anymore. It turns out you can take the girl out of the practice of law, but you can’t take the practice of law out of the girl. Like when I bought my first dildo recently. And like any responsible dildo owner, the first thing I did was read the instruction manual. Item number 1 is, “Apply a reasonable amount of lubricant to the surface of the vibrator making sure not to let it rub into or interfere with the battery operating control unit.” I wonder what the legal standard is for a “reasonable” amount of lube. I don’t think we covered that in law school. Or maybe we did and I wasn’t paying attention because I was finger-fucking myself in the back row.
Even though I hated being a lawyer, I have to admit that having a little legal training can get you out of some pretty sticky situations. When I was younger, I had a lot of trouble saying “no,” so I’d occasionally accept offers to go out with guys I didn’t really want to date. As long as the guy didn’t use the word “date” when he was asking me out, I argued it was reasonable to construe his request as one to go out as friends. Then if there was any question later, I’d point out that since he wanted to be on a date but I didn’t, there was no “meeting of the minds” necessary to form a date. Therefore, at best, he was on a “unilateral date,” which entitled him, at best, to recover the cost of my dinner.
I had a baby recently. Living with a baby is a lot like living with Triumph the Insult Comic Dog. “That’s a nice clean blanket… for me to poop on.” “That’s a nice clean changing table cover… for me to poop on.” Except he doesn’t say those things. He does them.
Once the baby took a huge dump while sitting in my lap. But instead of being repulsed, I caught myself patting him on the back and saying, “That’s what we’re looking for. There’s the jackpot.”
One morning just as we were headed out the door, the baby took a dump so huge I had to strip him down and put him in the bathtub for a purification ceremony. His clothes were a total loss. When it was all over, I considered burning down the house and sowing salt into the soil underneath so nothing could ever grow there again.
We moved to the suburbs to get our son into a good school district. I hate living in the suburbs. The people who live there are such chodes. Ladies, do me a favor. If you must catch up with an acquaintance about your child’s activities, please do it over coffee, not in the middle of a grocery aisle that’s already blocked by someone stocking produce. By the way, if your son is anywhere nearly as clueless and self-absorbed as you are, I’m not surprised he’ll be warming the bench this year.
Being a parent opens you up to all kinds of criticism. I can’t believe the amount of flak I took for posting a video of my child wearing mismatched socks. Good thing I didn’t post that video of him trying to ignite gunpowder with a broken whiskey bottle.
I don’t know. Maybe I’m just an under-protective parent. One time I went to pick up the baby from daycare and there was a child there who was wearing a helmet… to take a nap. The way I see it, though, if your child can’t nap without getting a head injury, I’m not sure what he has to contribute to the gene pool.
One day when I was pretty far along in my pregnancy I walked into the gym and spotted a friend. While walking over to talk to him, I misjudged my ability to fit between two exercise bikes because I was a little wider than usual. My friend said, “That reminds me of something. My uncle owned a dairy farm. He had a cow that was pregnant and she got really big. One day she got stuck between two trees and died there.”
I don’t know what’s more awesome about that story. The fact that my friend compared me to a cow or the fact that he introduced me to a new phobia: the fear of getting caught between two objects and dying there.
Before the baby arrived, I checked out a library book for my husband on becoming a new father. I asked him how he liked it and he said, “What I took away from that book is that a lot of different kinds of discharges are possible.”
Parenthood has had a dampening effect on my sex life. The Bed, Bath & Beyond catalog is now my version of porn. The other night my husband declined to kiss me while I was simultaneously giving myself a mud-mask facial and pumping breast milk. Do you think he’s met someone else? Also, I had already put in my mouth guard for the night.
Maybe it’s how I was dressed. The other day I was at the gym and the lady next to me in the locker room was putting on a black lace push-up bra with matching panties, skin-tight black leather pants, and four-inch stiletto boots she took out of a satin bag. After my workout, I put on stained, tattered underpants that matched my nursing bra only in the sense that they were also stained and tattered, stretchy yoga pants, and snow boots caked with salt.
There’s just too much pressure to dress sexy these days. It’s impossible to buy a plain bra anymore. I don’t need it to be made out of neon lights. I don’t need it to play mp3s. I don’t need it to shoot fireworks into the air. I just need it to hold my size 34B knockers in place under a white blouse. Is that really so much to ask?
I don’t understand people who wear bathrobes in the locker room. The chance to get naked in front of a stranger is pretty much the only reason I have a gym membership.
I’ve thought of a way to make breastfeeding in public more socially acceptable: I’m going to start calling it “uploading nutrition into my baby.”
When I took the baby in for a check-up after I went back to work, his doctor and I were discussing his sleep patterns. She said most babies do their best sleeping between 6 and 10 in the morning. I said, “Fortunately, that’s also when I do my best sleeping.” She gave me a weird look, then turned to the baby and said, “Your mommy’s funny.” I didn’t tell her that wasn’t a joke.
Because I’m a stellar parent, one morning I gave my baby my iPhone to play with so I could buy some more sleep. He used it to post an article on my Facebook page called “10 Common Mistakes Parents Make.” Think he’s trying to tell me something?
My son loves the iPhone so much he will tear himself off the breast and drag himself across the floor to get it. It’s pretty disturbing. But I’m one who uses lemons to make lemonade. So I used the iPhone to teach him to crawl. Whenever he would whine for it, I just put it on the floor and said, “You want it? Crawl for it, bitch!”
He got me back, though. The next morning he had a dirty diaper that my husband accurately compared to a war crime.
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